http://www.vegasnews.squarespace.com/display/ShowJournalEntry?moduleId=4943&entryId=11219

A long read if you've nothing better to do. I would suggest you start around the second comment from a young Tina Cockwash...

While attending a marriage seminar on communication, I listened to the instructor declare "It is essential that husbands and wives know the things that are important to each other."

He addressed the men: "For instance, gentlemen, can you name your wife's favourite flower?"

Tom leaned over, feeling very confident, touched his wife's arm gently and whispered, "Self-Raising, isn't it?"

The rest of the story is not pleasant.

Look closely...